Stronger Marriages Don’t Just Happen - They’re Built.
Whether you’re rebuilding after hardship or simply want to grow deeper in connection, coaching with Broken for Better gives you the tools, guidance, and encouragement to move your marriage from surviving to thriving.
COACHING DESIGNED TO MOVE YOUR MARRIAGE FROM SURVIVING TO THRIVING
With nearly 30 years of marriage and over 20 years of guiding couples, Kurt and Denette Schaer have walked with countless families through seasons of joy and pain. They know the hidden struggles that quietly weaken relationships—miscommunication, unresolved conflict, betrayal, and broken trust.
THESE STRUGGLES OFTEN SHOW UP AS:
Conversations that end in misunderstanding instead
of connection.
Arguments that repeat without resolution.
Wounds from infidelity or trauma that feel too heavy to
heal.Addictive or destructive patterns that impact the whole
family.A fading sense of intimacy, trust, and joy in marriage.
THROUGH BROKEN FOR BETTER COACHING,
WE WORK TO:
Strengthen communication so couples feel heard, valued, and understood.
Guide couples toward healthy ways of navigating conflict
and restoring peace.Walk with couples as they rebuild trust and hope
after infidelity or loss.Support families in breaking harmful cycles
and establishing healthier rhythms.Inspire couples to move from simply
surviving to truly thriving in marriage and
family life.
Discover the Benefits of Broken for Better Coaching
Personalized Coaching
Tailored sessions designed around your
relationship’s unique needs and goals
Direct Access
Weekly to monthly one-on-one or couple
coaching sessions with Kurt and Denette Schaer
Reignite a Deeper Connection
with Your Spouse
Strengthen intimacy and emotional
closeness with your spouse
Build a Teamwork
Mindset Together
Build a strong, united partnership
to tackle life’s challenges together
Pre-Marital Preparation
Guidance to help couples start their
marriage on a strong foundation
Conflict Mediation
Practical support for working through
difficult issues with grace and clarity
Actionable & Practical Tools
Simple practices you can begin using
today for a stronger tomorrow
Become Masters at
Conflict Resolution
Navigate disagreements calmly and
turn them into growth.
Clearer Communication
in Your Marriage
Learn to express needs with confidence
and listen with understanding
Rebuild Trust in Your Marriage
Guidance for healing from betrayal,
broken promises, or deep hurts
Marriage Coaching
Access to marriage coaches who will provide ongoing tools and encouragement to help your marriage thrive in everyday life.
Personal Growth
Develop greater self-awareness and
confidence in your role as a spouse
WHAT BROKEN FOR BETTER CLIENTS ARE SAYING
Kurt and his wife at Broken for Better have been such a blessing in our lives. Through their faith-based couple therapy, God has brought healing and growth to our relationship. We’re forever grateful for their guidance and care! If you’re looking for real, Spirit-led help, look no further. Broken for Better is exactly what the name says—brokenness turned into something better.
- Luisa
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Had a great experience spending time with Kurt & developed a lifelong friend as a result. Our Biblically focused time together was pivotal in the restoration of my 30+ year marriage. He provided me with Godly tools I could reflect on daily & share with others. With a rededicated focus on God coupled with Kurt’s influence my wife and I have stronger relationship than we have ever had.
- Scott
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Kurt & Denette were a breath of fresh wind into our marriage. Kurt challenged me to add value to my wife and to love her unconditionally. These meetings were not easy but very rewarding to our lives. My wife was truly loved on and encouraged by these amazing people who pointed us to Jesus as the one who can change things. We love them!!! We would refer them to all who need guidance and direction on how to be the marriage God intended for all to have.
- Marshall
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My husband and I started meeting with Kurt & Denette of Broken for Better for marriage coaching about 6 months after our wedding. It has been such a blessing in building a firm foundation in our relationship as newly weds. Kurt & Denette give us practical tools rooted in scripture that have taught us to communicate better, have disagreements without dismissing one another, and establish healthy boundaries in various aspects. Their guidance is encouraging and they are skilled at challenging thinking/behaviors without picking sides. The tools we’ve learned from this ministry have not only strengthened our marriage, but our relationship with God both as a couple and as individuals. We are both grateful to have met Kurt & Denette and be able to do life alongside them!
- Erica
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2 years ago my marriage & family fell apart and it seemed impossible to ever recover. Kurt & Denette were the voices that we needed at just the right time. Their empathy, experience, and compassion were exactly what I needed to even consider allowing myself to open up to ANYONE again. They truly helped me believe that there was a glimmer of hope on the other side of so much pain. My husband and I have been married for almost 23 years and I can honestly say that my marriage is the strongest that it’s ever been because of the counsel we received through Broken for Better.
- G.G.
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When I first had the opportunity to be a part of this ministry, I was looking for support in my marriage and my family and that's exactly what I got. It wasn't a lecture about what I need to do, but a biblical foundation of TRUE AUTHENTIC TRANSPARENCY that allowed me to open up and be real with my feelings because I felt their love and I knew I could trust thier process to make me a better man, husband and father. As I work through this thing called LIFE, I'm thankful for the friends I've made, the talks we've had and the biblical principles we challenge each other to live by, that allow me to pivot when the going gets tough. Even when I completely miss a shot, "Broken for Better" has taught me the power in my rebound. If you're thinking of reaching out or you want to provide more support for your marriage and or your family please reach out to them.
- Chad
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Questions
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Marriage counseling often looks back to heal past hurts. Marriage coaching, while it may touch on the past, is more about looking ahead and equipping couples with tools and strategies to build the marriage they want moving forward.
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While we cover a variety of topics within marriage, some topics we specialize in are communication, rebuilding trust, trauma (through infidelity), intimacy, finances, dating, trust, abuse (emotional/verbal),
conflict-resolution, communication, accountability, & more -
We offer both individual sessions and packages. Pricing varies, and we’ll help you choose the best fit for your situation after your first free consultation
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Yes—we offer both, so you can choose the option that works best for you.
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Yes. All of our coaching is rooted in biblical principles while being practical and applicable for everyday life.
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Not at all. Coaching helps couples in every season—whether you want to heal, grow, or simply build stronger habits together.
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We do offer life coaching for individuals, but it's almost impossible to truly work on a marriage by yourself. The best thing you can do is be the healthiest you! What we'd love to do is schedule a free consultation with you to see how we can best support you in whatever circumstance you are in.
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Many couples notice small wins right away, while deeper transformation comes with time, consistency, and commitment.
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